We live in a society that places a premium on winning, says Heath Eslinger, a former Division I college wrestling coach and founder of A Better Way, an organization that helps parents, coaches, athletes, teams, and organizations get the most out of their journey by focusing on developing intrinsic qualities that will last a lifetime. But winning is relative, Eslinger says. There is always another level and another medal that could be won.  “It would be healthier if we viewed competition like a test,” Eslinger says. “In ancient days, the word test meant to ‘prove in a good sense.’”  read full article here